Resist Change, Why?

Change is Nature, The Part We Influence. And it All Starts When We Decide!

If you don’t know to control what is going around, challenge yourself to control the way you responding to it. That challenge is Change. To define, it maybe uncertain or uneasy switches or process through which something becomes different. We all resist change. For us, it is the most baffling and intractable problem. Some resist thinking they will lose power or alteration in expertise or even be wrong in accepting the change as decision. In simple terms, surprise or fear of the unknown or failure make us resist change. But, we have to understand that life is a continuous succession of natural and impulsive changes. Resistance will only bring sorrow; let reality be it. Let things flow the way they like. Those who died yesterday had plans for today and those who died today had plans for tonight. This is why I love a quote of Socrates. He stated, “The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new”.

Change comes in life to make us struggle forth. I think change is like seeds of seeing dreams. You want something more; you urge to think bigger or on another level in other you Change for good and better. Likewise, without seeds nothing grows and without change nothing can be innovated. Though, there is no doubt about the fact that how much we want things to be same but life is all about change. Sometimes it is for better or sometimes not so welcoming one. It doesn’t matter why anything in life is changing, the greater fact is God has indeed blessed us with power of memory but also blessed us with power of forgetting and letting go too. Whether it is failure in business or relationship, death of dear ones or even betrayal – holding onto past pain and hatred will only hold you backwards.

I don’t know whether you have realized this or not; that prayers does not change God but rather it changes us. It uplifts the feeling of belonging and make our spirits right. We have to learn to adoptive to nature and any circumstance. Life is succession of changes from cradle to grave, from growing up with intelligence which changes to wisdom. Rather for me, as life changes it gives me new things to write. Change is painful but as painful as being stuck to somewhere you feel you don’t belong.

Stop Being Afraid of What Can Get Wrong & Please be Excited to See What if all Goes Right!

Change is Law of Life and I trust you have come far not only to stay this far. Great things come when you learn to shade comfort zone. Change brings opportunity! Accept it!